“Friendship is the golden thread that ties all the hearts of the world.”
“Friends are the family you choose.”
Friends are the elixir of life, often working better than medicine. At times, we trust our true friends more than even our family members to share our inner feelings. You feel confident that a friend beyond hashtags will keep your secrets safe and be there to help you at any given time.
There are many phases in our lives—some good, some difficult. Sometimes they are beyond our control, and sometimes self-created, like facing debt and being unable to repay. A true friend can be of help selflessly. But one should not take such a friend for granted or trouble them too often. There is always a limit to tolerance. Friendship should be two-way—if one friend is in trouble, the other should also be ready to help.
Many people maintain long-lasting childhood friendships beyond hashtags. They remain in touch even into their 80s. I have seen two childhood friends who still meet regularly, attending their children’s and grandchildren’s weddings whenever health permits. Such friendships are pure and true, without expectations. I really admire watching them behave like children again—giggling while remembering the games they played in their childhood, and how they teased boys who couldn’t bowl or bat properly. Their bond is so strong because it is free from special demands; they simply want to meet, relive old memories, and share the changes they’ve seen in life and friendships. They feel joy in cherishing these bonds and sorrow when they see other friendships break due to misunderstandings.
I myself am in touch with some of my school friends just for mental peace. Recently, we all gathered at one friend’s house and had a wonderful time remembering our school days and comparing them with the present. But it also saddens me to see how easily some people can betray their friends.
During my blogging years, I’ve also gathered many friends through writing, discussions, and video calls. We’ve learned from each other the finer details of writing and improving our skills.
All of this is beyond hashtags.
When any friend feels low, they can always call another to share their mind and release their feelings. And it works both ways.
If you are blessed with even a few true friends in your life, you are fortunate. Friends act like medicine—with their tender, kind words that heal the mind.
I am lucky to have made friends who ask about my health, and I too call them now and then to know about their well-being.
Wishing friends on their birthdays and anniversaries feels special. I believe in calling them personally on their important days and achievements, rather than just sending a short congratulatory message. This gives me immense pleasure and allows me to truly feel their happiness.
Let true friendship blossom.
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– Poornima Sivaraman
About the Writer:
Poornima Sivaraman, a vibrant 74-year-young retired teacher, embodies a love for life and creativity. With a passion for connecting with people of all ages, she channels her energy into writing across various platforms, contributing to anthologies, and sharing her unique perspectives with readers.
Beyond her literary pursuits, Poornima enjoys singing and has recorded numerous songs on Star Maker, showcasing her melodious voice. A culinary enthusiast, she finds joy in cooking and believes in living a simple, meaningful life. Dedicated to helping others whenever possible, Poornima is a true advocate of kindness and positivity.
