Neurodivergent people may look different, but I feel they have a much clearer and sharper mind than us, normal people who cannot understand many things and act accordingly—if one looks at these people carefully and affectionately.
“Books are like doors of knowledge; when you open them, they take you to the imaginary world. Don’t read books just to read, read books to understand.”
These are the deep thoughts of a young neurodivergent boy.
This applies to us too—looking at special children with a different outlook and including them in our lives with open hearts. They are the Gifts of God to some special parents whom He has selected carefully, as He knew those parents would bring them up very lovingly and supportively. They just want society to show some empathy and sympathy towards their children.
Each person has different talents, and the need is to tap them, source them up, and shape their talents to a greater level.
Pearls of Wisdom
Disability is like thriller fiction, creating rigidity in people’s minds.
Disability is just like dust on the mirror—clear it to see the abilities.
These words also are from the same young boy’s thoughts, and it speaks a lot if we look at the words and try to understand the meaning.
Those who are quiet and cannot speak and express their thoughts—do not underestimate them, please.
As I have seen, many children can show their talent by dancing, singing, playing instrumental music, and writing their thoughts through words. Many have published their books and won awards for their work.
“They say silence speaks loudly.”
It is the truth. I am happy that I have met some—Rashmi Patil, Devansh Chandra, Shibani Ghosh—and seen their live performances.
Music heals them, and their talents come out fluently. It is we who have to encourage them to live their lives peacefully with a purpose.
One has to keep their eyes and ears open to watch and hear about special children and try to include them in our lives and be as helpful as one can be.
Steps to be taken
- Be kind and loving.
- Talk to them as you talk to anyone.
- Do not shoo them away.
- Give them a chance and see the wonders they can do.
- Be part of their activities.
- Boost them to be happy.
All these simple and small gestures—any of us would expect. Then why discriminate against some in society? “Oh! They cannot do anything—pity their parents.”
Showing empathy and acceptance is what is needed.
Together, we can bring in a lot of change. Join some groups that are doing a lot of work to bring change in their lives. Contribute your share in any way possible.
God would shower blessings. In their quiet, I heard soft music and contributed by joining them in the Musical Extravaganza or by telling stories.
It matters a lot—not only to them but to you also. You get that inner peace.
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– Poornima Sivaraman
About the Author:
Poornima Sivaraman, a vibrant 74-year-young retired teacher, embodies a love for life and creativity. With a passion for connecting with people of all ages, she channels her energy into writing across various platforms, contributing to anthologies, and sharing her unique perspectives with readers.
Beyond her literary pursuits, Poornima enjoys singing and has recorded numerous songs on Star Maker, showcasing her melodious voice. A culinary enthusiast, she finds joy in cooking and believes in living a simple, meaningful life. Dedicated to helping others whenever possible, Poornima is a true advocate of kindness and positivity.