Each year, when the year ends, one thinks of resolutions to be made for the coming year. Friends discuss their resolutions and make fun of each other: “All these are fake resolutions, and no one keeps their promises.” The year starts, and the same routine is followed by many. Some may try to keep their resolutions active.
Mohan and Radha were a lovable couple. It was a love marriage. Their life was moving well in the initial years. They tried to adjust to each other’s habits and vices. Radha loved to sleep early, whereas Mohan enjoyed his drinks each day, slept late, and got up late as he was a banker and was in no hurry to go to work. Radha worked as a teacher and had to leave by 7:30. She cooked his breakfast and lunch before she left. She tried her best to convince him to change his habits, at least during the weekend, but he did not bother.
Each year, on the 31st of December, he would make a resolution and promise her he would stop his habits. The year rolled by, but he could not keep his promise.
They were blessed with two sons. Radha reminded him to control his drinking and give time to the children when she was busy. But as with many couples, they fought, and life moved on, with each December bringing the same promises.
Why are some people not able to keep up with their resolutions and are in stress? Is it that difficult?
Some of them make a long list of resolutions for 2025:
- I will stop craving for samosas.
- I will not use my mobile for more than four hours.
- I will go for a walk daily.
- I will meditate for half an hour.
- I will read a book each month.
- I will manage my finances in a better way.
- I will take care of the elders at home.
- I will try to control my finances.
- I will think before I speak.
The lists are easier to make than to follow.
Learning from childhood to follow a good routine and live in a disciplined way helps a person live happily. One gets more time to enjoy their passion, learn many new things, and live a tension-free life.
– Poornima Sivaraman

About The Author
Poornima Sivaraman, a vibrant 74-year-young retired teacher, embodies a love for life and creativity. With a passion for connecting with people of all ages, she channels her energy into writing across various platforms, contributing to anthologies, and sharing her unique perspectives with readers.
Beyond her literary pursuits, Poornima enjoys singing and has recorded numerous songs on Star Maker, showcasing her melodious voice. A culinary enthusiast, she finds joy in cooking and believes in living a simple, meaningful life. Dedicated to helping others whenever possible, Poornima is a true advocate of kindness and positivity.
Her words and actions reflect a rich tapestry of experiences and an unwavering belief in embracing life’s beautiful journey.