Dear Woman

Author: Sarita Shukla

Dear Woman,

Isn’t your being, “Too” in everything, too suffering. Your too much dedication, isn’t that taken for granted always. You often end up loosing yourself in trying to mend so much broken outside. That sacrifices and compromises, why they often come to your part always. From career to silently accepting all the terms and conditions in not one but every relationship, isn’t that suffering, isn’t that suffocating.

This too, is misleading, yes, be too beautiful like always, be too dedicated to self, be too encouraging, too positive, too strong, too smart but don’t be too broken, too shattered, too lost, too weak inside out.

Its time to work on yourself. Don’t allow anyone to consume you. Others being disturb does hurt, but if someone makes you that cushion to punch on till they feel relaxed and empty, don’t accept that.

Be impeccable with your words, speak with integrity and self wisdom. Put up your points in a way you actually wish to convey, what you clearly mean. Don’t let them conclude it as gossip. Your too much being into something isn’t always considered concern but often is used against you. So let’s avoid this over conversation.

Avoid giving explanations and apologies to strength. It’s better to let go things and people if they get sorted every time with your validations and explanations. It’s time to focus on how you feel, what you wish, what you really want, how you wanted things to be.

It’s time to be comfortable, it’s time to focus on self. We are born as individuals and don’t let that one go away from you in being too much for others. Outgrow yourself, do things for self growth too.